Hey!!!
I did not mean it to be "pure" as in "perfect and white and clean and solidified" but in the sense of a formally decomposing sculpture eg. the Beuys wax melting and spreading over the floor, or the body inside a felt blanket getting warming up and uttering some sounds. I think the purity refers to the living nature and transformations of materiality, the body hanging between states, living, dying, and how these sensations produce ideas and thoughts.
I would hope that this kind of pure sculpture would be contagious. eg the audience is affected and feels a bit squizy, because it is not comfortable to watch the in-between states of the body. But for me this is kind of sexy. And yes I agree that cybersex is where the in between states, multiple personas, sexual uncertainties, the sexual brains, have more chances of surviving as "purity" and being contagious.
It just seems that cybersex is moving away from the "in the moment" words or games or pictures into "dating mechanisms"-- ie. the cybercommunication is just a foreplay to get out of the contagion, out of the house, and get a date.
Wishing of course we would meet someday.
Katrien